Separation and Divorce
Whether you are the one who has decided to leave the marriage, the one being left or you both have decided this together - it just isn’t easy.
Everyone goes into their marriage thinking, hoping and expecting that it will last forever. When the harsh reality hits you that it isn’t going to last, it feels as if your world is falling apart and that something is dying.
If you are thinking about separation and/or divorce you need to prepare yourself so that you can deal with this process in an informed and effective manner. I can help you get though this very difficult process. I can help you begin to plan the rest of your new life.
What do you do next??? It is so important that you have a safe place to work through all those feeling of quilt, pain, remorse, fear and complete devastation. Your panic and emotions need to be addressed because they have no useful place in your decision making process. The advice of friends and family will confuse you. I will help you decide on your goals, your needs and then keep them in perspective. A lawyer can’t do that all for you. You can’t afford to leave anything to chance because nothing is more difficult than trying to change the terms of your of divorce once it is over.
Being in psychotherapy during this very challenging time will allow you to manage your feelings so that they don’t get in the way of you doing what is best for you.
For more information, to make an appointment, or for a free phone consultation: Call me at 410-433-8027 or email me at info@b2beck.com.